What if softer?

Sometimes we feel that our erections are real hard and solid during foreplay and arousal...However when it enter it become soft a bit or when inside it may becomes more soft and eventually slip out. This causes embarassment with our partners
 
 

Don't worry brother as it has been said that this sounds like a classic psychological ED especially when the erections are finde during foreplay but falters during peneration.

Suggestions:

1) abstain from all masturbation- do not ejaculate unless it's during sex.  Masturbation can condition our penis in a negative fashion. 

2) focus on stamina work- make it a priority.

Test our erections after a PE workout.  If we have trouble getting erect 15 minutes after a workout, we're overdoing it.